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How can I move on from my ex?

10.06.2025 09:24

How can I move on from my ex?

Have Faith: Leave everything on God. As I mentioned in the beginning. If the person is meant for you, he/she will come back. If not so, God will give you signs. Ask him to give you the strength to accept the situation and move on.

Hope it helps! 🌷

Remember one thing-

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Last but not the least, you choose to stay in the same state of mind because you think that they were the perfect fit for you.

Instead of that put your time and energy in up-skilling and grooming yourself. When you shift your focus from worrying to building yourself, you will eventually meet good people. Then it will become easy for you to get over from the past.

Get rid of this state and keep one thing in your mind- there are so many good people waiting for you. So don't waste your energy unnecessarily.

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If the relation was so serious for them, then they wouldn't have left you but they had fixed things.

God will never take away anything, which was meant for you!

Follow No-contact: I know this fact that you will keep getting urges to check their profiles or just send them a text. So it is better to block them. You don't have to keep an eye on every activities or updates by them. Let them do what they want to.

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Don't seek for closure: In many cases, situation will be created where you will not get any reason why it didn't worked out. For that time, their actions will be your answer. No one knows better than you, how they ended things or treated you.

Acceptance: Accept it that the person who used to close to you is no more an important part of your life. Don't run from your emotions. The more you run from it the more they will come after you. It is better to feel it at the present moment.

Delete everything: Remove every picture, text, audio, gift or anything related to them. It seems difficult but this is the only way. You will get reminders of them if you keep revisiting those memories.

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Talk about it: It may sound quite weird but do it anyways. Express yourself. Rant about your thoughts and feelings to a close friend. If you don't have anyone to share with. Then write it in a diary/journal or record a voice note. Trust me, you will get relief by letting that energy out.

The first and foremost thing you can do is, to understand that this person wasn't for you.

Now, coming to the detailed analysis - How to really move on?

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REMINDER- Nothing is going to change instantly, all these points discussed will take time and patience. It can take days, weeks or months to move on. So, take one step each day slowly and heal yourself.

Forgive but don't forget: Try to forgive them for whatever happened. Blame game will give you nothing at the end, it will only take away your peace. Just think that they were right at their place and you are at yours. It is just, you both are not right for each other. Take lessons from it and don't forget the mistakes you did.